It must be tough to be a girl

I knew I am sensitive to rejection.  Not being accepted, being isolated, being ignored and being discriminated can really destroy me.  But at least I am also crave for satisfaction from doing great work, found accomplishment on creating something good, or found myself fully utilize my time doing productive activities.  So my male DNA kept me from totally relying on social relationship to gain happiness.

Girls, on the other hand, are born to be social animal.  Their happiness mostly built on the top of being socially accepted, and for most of them the ultimate goal in their life is to find someone who they can depend on, someone they love, and importantly, someone who loves them.  That's why breaking up or divorce is such a big deal to them.  But then I was also told that girls recover from breaking up faster than man.  I guess that maybe caused by the fact that they are highly social, and thus have more experience on dealing with hardship in relationships.

People tends to ignore the fact that when they try to get something, they also get the things that comes along.  When you married a guy, you get the things you like about him, but you also get the things you don't like.  And in most case, the things you don't like about him will stay being like that forever, and you have to deal with the fact that you will not get the perfect him.  That perfection image is only in your dream, and will never become reality.  So for the same reason, when a guy wants to be become a girl, he shall also prepare to get all the good things and bad things about being a girl.  And in a social norm of looking down transgender people, there's way more negative things you will have to endure.  So count the cost before jumping in.  But once you are in, be proud for being yourself and for the fact that you are brave enough to make that commitment.